Saturday, August 22, 2009

Good Girl Spankings All 'Round


There is a group of women in our blogging community who are so kind, thoughtful, and intelligent that I feel that I have to acknowledge them here. They are consistent posters on their own blogs with fresh, fun, uplifting posts--never whiny, bitchy, or ranting & raving. And they are unbelievable commenters on a long list of blogs, always quick with a word of praise or support. They have been the absolute backbone of my blog and I want to say a very public thank you to them all.

Ronnie at Heart and Soul

Daisy at Daisychain

PK at New Beginnings

and Hermoine at Hermoine's Heart

So, P, Davey, Nick, and Ron, you have an important job. These ladies deserve a nice, long, hard "good girl" spanking. Allow me to explain:

First, you need to lay her out across your lap, in a comfortable, well supported position, on a bed or couch.

Start with a lovely little warm up, with your hand only, across her covered bottom. Talk sweetly to her. Stop and rub often.

When you decide to pull down her pants or lift her skirt, do it slowly, dramatically revealing her assets. Murmur your appreciation of their astonishing beauty.

Use your hand or some soft leather, if she likes that. Absolutely no nasty, mean implements like paddles, or hairbrushes, or canes, or horrid backscratchers.

The most important moment in any spanking is when the panties are finally taken down, leaving her completely exposed and helpless. Do it with flourish and make her happy.

Just because it's a "good girl" spanking, doesn't mean that it's not hard; keep it steady, strong and sure. The intensity needs to build over time, harder and faster. Remember, though, it's important to stop and rub often. She will let you know if she wants more or needs a break. Be tuned into her subtle signs.

End the spanking with a great round of really hard spanking. Fast and furious.

Now, remember a "good girl" spanking always concludes with lots of hugs and kisses, rubbing, loving. Make sure that you tell her out loud that she's a good girl and how much you love her.


7 comments:

Daisychain said...

AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW, Thank you, Carly!
You know, I didn't realise till the other day when you said it was your first anniversary of your blog, that you were so new...your blog has the air of experience about it, I thought you had been going several years!

My spanking will have to wait till we are together, but will be all the sweeter for the wait.... maybe he will slot it between all those dicipline ones I have been earning!!!! hahaha!
Hugs, xxxxxxx Daisy xxxxxxxxxxxx

ronnie said...

Carly, thanks, that is so kind of you. I do love to stop here.

I just read Daisy's comment and I thought the same. Your pictures are some of the best.

Now, I have to go and send an email to P with your link and hope he gets the message :)

Thanks again Carly.

Love.
Ronnie
xx

Spanky said...

I think you belong on that list, too!

PK said...

Carly,
Bless your heart! When I started the support and friendships I found here helped to transform my life. I'm happy to be able to pass it on.

I always marval at the pictures you find and I love when you post some of yourself.

Now Ronnie had a good idea emailing P the link but I didn't want to take that chance. I'm sitting here beside Nick (each of us on our laptops) and I just told him - go read Carly's site! He had a grin on his face when he finished. I'll let you know if he take you up on it!

And Daisy, I hope you are doing leg strengthing exercises. Once you and Davey get together I think you are going to be doing a LOT of standing!

Hugs,
PK

Hermione said...

Carly,

Thank you so much for the shout-out. I'm going to make sure Ron reads your post. It was eloquent, to say the least!

Hugs,
Hermione

Davey said...

Carly,
I am sure Daisy will enjoy her "Good girl" spank. I specialize in them...LOL
Davey

Bonnie said...

Carly,

Such lovely wishes and it couldn't happen to a nicer group of friends!

Hugs,
Bonnie