How To Get A Spanking

I'm going to go out on a limb here and guess that a lot of people reading this blog are women who want a spanking. I know there are men who read it too, but mostly women, some of whom are currently getting spanked regularly, but a lot of whom just wish they were. I have found an answer for you--a brand new e-book called How to Get the Spanking You Want: The Complete Guide to Asking For It, Getting It, and Making It Better by Vivian from The Disciplined Feminist blog. This is the perfect how-to for beginners who accept that they need a spanking, but aren't quite sure how to get it.

Vivian writes her useful and very thorough explanations in the spirit of camaraderie--an older sister helping along a newcomer--with a few playful spanking puns thrown in along the way.

There is no question that her intended audience is a woman in a trusting relationship who is confronting her spanking desires for the first time. The first 100 pages are devoted to establishing that it is what she really wants and how to get her man to agree to it.

I found truth in her discussion of not expecting the reality of a spanking to match the fantasy in your head. After all, a real spanking is about pain and relinquishing control. Vivian will coach you through using communication and trust to get you past the fantasy into a place where you both have a very positive real experience.

If you're a more seasoned spankee, don't worry, there are a few tasty tidbits for you in the second half of the book with chapters on How to Take a Spanking, More Satisfying Spankings and Spicing Up Your Spanking Life.

All in all, Vivian uses her personal experience to expertly guide us safely through the landmines that can come with a spanking relationship. This is information that a want-to-be spankee is desperately searching for. If you want to feel that you’re not all alone in your desires and to know how to approach the whole situation in a straightforward manner, read this book to learn how to get the spanking you yearn for.

check it out here: www.HowToGetASpanking.com